Hi Glenn,
Great post. The methods you have suggested are great to enhance the sound of a cheap drum, any drum for that matter. i recently purchased a hedwitchak 40cm deep lite line and found the sound to be much much better than the cheap drums. hope you do in fact get a quality drum, they are worth the money. for the time being, if you still have the inexpensive drum i have found that adding a strap (when crossbar removed) to the frame allows for easier play especially when standing. The strap also looks cool. If interested in a strap, drill 2 small hole into the drum, directly across from one another, screw in 2 knobs, and apply a guitar strap. As for application of a skin treatment i have found than pure lanolin works great. I have tried using a skin lotion that has lanolin in it, big mistake. It works great at first, but then you have to reapply it often which leads to caking. pure lanolin twice a year depending on climate works great. Also purchasing a guitar humidifier is very helpful. No need to water the skin prior to play, which prevents accidently over watering. I found this website to be very helpful.
http://www.bodhranai.jackalpress.com
Happy Playing
Rich